Like everyone else, our summer plans were hijacked. But the silver lining has been more time with my transitioning adult kids. Currently I’m road tripping with Becca (through parts of nine states in two days) from Albuquerque to Pittsburgh where she’ll attend the University of Pittsburgh for grad school. She’s excited for the new adventure and to live in a…
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A Baby Step
Recently my writing friend Michelle, asked me a harmless question. “What’s happening with your memoir?” Unprepared, I choked out a lame response. Even though she graciously affirmed my babble, our exchange sent me on a quest. Scavenger Hunt It feels like I’m on a mysterious scavenger hunt and not exactly sure what I’m looking for or when I’ll find…
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I’ll Have What She’s Having…
In 1989 it made the top ten most famous quotes. “I’ll have what she’s having.” More than three decades later, even taken out of context, I suspect most of you know the movie and the specific scene that line comes from. While in a diner Sally, played by Meg Ryan, and Harry, played by Billy Crystal, are arguing. The patrons…
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There She Blows…
I dedicate this article to Doug who has taken the brunt of my bad behavior, and still loves me. “Love is hard. Love is seeing the darkness in another person and defying the impulse to jump ship.” Ann Lamott The Struggle This pandemic has taken a toll. I noticed something was really off when I couldn’t enjoy tennis. While on the court, unable to focus,…
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Dorothy got it Right!
Do you ever just put your head under the pillow because you don’t want to face the bad stuff? With enough disappointment, sadness, fear and confusion, you attempt to control your environment with a full plate of Disney. Reality tries to re-capture your attention but you distract yourself with busy-ness and filter the input. You walk around with a sign……
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